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Comments on: Girl, You Need New Friends https://popculturenerd.com/2016/05/10/girl-you-need-new-friends Mon, 08 Feb 2021 10:57:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.26 By: LindaF https://popculturenerd.com/2016/05/10/girl-you-need-new-friends/comment-page-1#comment-365297 Thu, 09 Jun 2016 21:16:25 +0000 https://popculturenerd.com/?p=25383#comment-365297 Don’t know whether these were books, but:

Hitchcock’s North by Northwest

The Manchurian Candidate

Both were men that were not believed about a crime.

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By: Pop Culture Nerd https://popculturenerd.com/2016/05/10/girl-you-need-new-friends/comment-page-1#comment-363259 Fri, 13 May 2016 18:47:25 +0000 https://popculturenerd.com/?p=25383#comment-363259 WHOA. That is a real-life mystery. I don’t understand why your friend wouldn’t believe you. Why would you make it up, especially the detail about the missing student having only one shoe? Whatever happened, I hope that student is safe.

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By: Eirego https://popculturenerd.com/2016/05/10/girl-you-need-new-friends/comment-page-1#comment-363254 Fri, 13 May 2016 14:22:08 +0000 https://popculturenerd.com/?p=25383#comment-363254 I had to give this some thought before responding.

I found a college exchange program student I sort of knew ain the hallway of my dorm late one night. He was absent mindedly staring out the window at the first snowfall he’d ever seen. He also only had one shoe on and thin windbreaker. I had a brief conversation with him while I was unlocking my door. When I turned back to ask him if he’d like to talk, he wasn’t there. Three days later, I overheard my friend in campus security say the guy had gone missing. I told him about the incident and thought I was just being dramatic, that I must have been drinking or high that night. (Don’t judge, it was college). The more I
insisted I wasn’t, the less he believed me.

Anyway….. I think it’s the type of situation that isn’t necessarily gender specific, but it provides mystery to a story. And a good mystery always grabs me.

However, I do agree that too often, it’s a female that writers choose to be frustrated about not being believed.

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By: Pop Culture Nerd https://popculturenerd.com/2016/05/10/girl-you-need-new-friends/comment-page-1#comment-363200 Thu, 12 May 2016 02:03:44 +0000 https://popculturenerd.com/?p=25383#comment-363200 I can’t remember a story in which no one would believe a man. I’m guessing they’re out there but I can’t think of any. Or people would be skeptical but not go so far as to condescendingly tell him that maybe he’s just drunk or on medication or a drama king.

For a woman to go forth alone and investigate something, she should have a very good reason not to tell someone. I did a movie once in which my character couldn’t tell the cops she’d witnessed a murder because she was an illegal in Berlin. She also couldn’t speak any German. So she went on the run. That made sense.

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By: Lauren https://popculturenerd.com/2016/05/10/girl-you-need-new-friends/comment-page-1#comment-363169 Wed, 11 May 2016 18:03:40 +0000 https://popculturenerd.com/?p=25383#comment-363169 Interesting questions you pose. Trying to think of a book where a man wasn’t believed and, well, you know I can’t remember anything past five minutes ago, so not even sure why I bothered. I would guess that it’s used more with women, but I also think it’s a (somewhat) lazy plot device. If her support system believes her, then she’s not out fighting danger on her own. I would prefer her not telling anyone if she’s not going to get any help, but then you get the “WHY DON’T YOU TELL SOMEONE!?!?” reaction. So to some extent I think authors can’t win. But there has to be a point where reality meets fiction. Or maybe not. I do agree that this bugs me to no end. I’m not sure if it bugs me more when the disbelievers are friends or authorities.

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